crazy busy days
At 2008-05-14 on 1:38 a.m.
Its been a long week and a half with ups and downs galore...
Wes came home on thursday to spend a long weekend with us-yea we know-he just left last week lmao-but it was Mothers day weekend and his 23rd B/Day so thats a good reason for me to have him come home :)
Of coarse he acted like it was years since he saw his friends so he spent most his time with them which is fine...
Saturday we went and had a cd player installed in his truck for his b/day gift and then me and the man got into a argument which ruined the day so we didnt speak to one another all day and night-shit happens ;) I had to pick up wes's cake and do some mother day shopping-by the way HAPPY BELATED MOTHERS DAY TO EVERYONE HOPE IT WAS GREAT!
Saturday night-late/early me and doug went to walmart-i had to get somethings and he needed some things so why not go to walmart after midnight?! Well we were heading home around 2:30am and was almost home and then the sky lit up like the 4th of July and i was like what was that-we thought it was a blown transformer-I slowed down cause all the street lights went out and as we heded up a lil futher we saw something i will never forget-i motorcyclist hit the cement pole and the thick cable that holds it down-we turned our car around and i started freaking cause i saw the guy laying half way in the road and not moving at all and no helmet-doug jumped out and ran over there and about the sametime another car pulled up_they were at walmart too-I parked the car and got out the paper towels i just bought incase they needed them and a thermal blanket thingy that hubby had in his suv-i ran over there scared to death and Doug kept pushing me in my chest telling me to get back and i was crying-i never did that before until my husband was amost killed...We all knew he was dead and his bike and clothes were thrown many feet away from his body-we all talked to him and told him to hang on help was on the way-i tld him him hang in there buddy your going to be ok and then i left...the cops were arriving and did NOTHING-it started in our county and the guy crossed over into the other county so i dont know if our county couldnt do anything -well it didnt matter cause the other county didnt do shit either but put a flashlight on the guy-yea i know they see this stuff everyday and its probably their rules but as a human being how can you not-thats what happened to when my husbands boat fell on him the cop just looked at the situation and talked on his radio...
Well i guess the guy was knocked out and started coming too and was gargling blood up and we tried to get his name which we thought he said kyle-i called my husband and woke him up-he didnt even know we left-and i freaked him out-i was asking him what should we do cause the police arent doing anything and i know your not suppose to move them but he was chocking on his blood...finally the emt got there and cut all of his clothes off and he started moaning and crying-his shorts were soaked in heavy blood and his face was all screwed up....I must say doug did real good and the other guys...
Sunday we went out to lunch/dinner at our favorite place and had a really good time and then we had to take doug home to see his girl and then we dropped off our payment for our boat storage which is right by where the accident was-we got out and they just left his shorts covered in blood and gloves laying right where they cut them off and there was still a lot of bike pieces laying around-they should of cleaned that stuff up-the cops-that is bio hazzard stuff..
Then we went home and watched the TPC which is here locally which is another story from friday night i will tell later-major mayhem-grrrrr Sergio Garcia won but i took a long nap :)
Then comes Monday-Dougs girl Erin had back surgery for a serious issue she has-its really weird to explain what it is-its basically a open wound that will never heal and just gets bigger cause its right on her tailbone where she sits so it wont heal right-i feel so bad for her-this is her third surgery and they tried something new this time so im hoping it works...We went out to eat for Wes's b/day and then went and got Erin some flowers and candy and a stuffed elephant and took it to their home-poor baby girl was in so much pain and doug doug was helping take care of her :*) Wes went off with some friends to celebrate his b/day-we never cut his cake...
I got up early today cause I had a drs. appt. with the gyn and GUESS WHAT im getting my baby maker parts taken out-yep im getting a hysterectomy im scared but im at the point where im saying do it-plus i have a hernia in my bladder area and my rectum area so im getting mesh slings to hold them up at the sametime as the hyste so im going to be feeling lovely for awhile-they can do it as soon as May 23rd but that is Memorial Day weekend and im not sure I wont it done on "memorial day" weekend so I might chose to have it done on the 30th-he does them every Fridays or i could wait until june so we shall see-its up to me...what to do what to do????
Wes is back in tally,doug worked all day then went and saw erin and take care of his babbbbby and we cut the cake :) Wes didnt want to take any with him he said he doesnt like cake-wtf?-who doesnt like cake?! is this my child?!
oh we found out today that the guy on the motorcylce is like 19 he graduated with Erin and his brother played football with Wes-and he is alive still but in ICU and has a long recovery ahead and this isnt his first stupid accident-on facebook he has pics of a car he flipped,he wrecked and totalled dougs friend justins red truck a few years ago,he's nuts on jetskis etc...now he's fighting for his life and putting his family thru hell...such ashame...